I have kids,not with my boyfriend, shoud he still give me a mothers day gift?

he is only concerned with his mom. I think he is great for being there for his mom but it hurts my feelings that I don't even get wild flowers, am I being dumb?

I have kids,not with my boyfriend, shoud he still give me a mothers day gift?
Yes you're being dumb he isn't the father of your kids and if he gives you something for Mother's Day its out of the kindness of his heart and that he wants to not that he needs to.
Reply:i do not even have kids with my gf but she does have kids and i still give her gifts cause i love her and even though they r not my kids i care abought them just the same and also i do not give my ex wife anyy gifts and we have kids together
Reply:hell yes he should give you a present. you are not being dumb at all!
Reply:It's not really his place to give you a gift for mom's day as a boyfriend, now as a husband it would be. With that being said, I would have, it's just a show of respect and love for you and all you do. Just the difference in guys I guess sweetheart. Sorry about him not getting you anything, but how about a Happy Mommy day from me?
Reply:why should he give you something for mothers day you are not his mother, your gifts should come from your kids even a home made card i think you are expecting to much from this man, and no i dont think your dumb
Reply:It's up to him. Recognizing that you have kids and are a mom, he may still want to give you something. Then again, he may not want to step onto any toes or hurt your feelings by bringing up a previous relationship.



Give him space to do something and hint that you may want a little something to on mother's day.
Reply:i think your being dumb common if he really loves you he will at least give you a card.
Reply:You are not dumb and you are a Mother. Having said that, it would be nice of him to acknowledge you today by either wishing you well, getting a gift for you with or from your children, he can even do some of the things you do everyday for you today. Just something to honor your special place in this world as a Mom. You don't have to be his Mom to be appreciated as a Mother. Happy Mother's Day!
Reply:I think he should give you a mother's day gift. YOU'RE STILL A MOM. He shouldn't think that he doesn't have to just, because they aren't his kids. That would be kind of selfish. Make him go get you something.



Happy Mother's Day.
Reply:Not really. If he loves ya he should have at least given you a single rose.
Reply:no.....u should be given a card,fowers,and or gift.

or is it just a fling?A moms a mom right?
Reply:I think it would depend on how long you two have been together. If its only been a short time then he probably doesn't feel comfortable. If its long term then he should definitely get you at least a card or something, after all your relationship is a package deal. When he got involved with you, he got involved with your kids as well. Just because he's not the father doesn't make you any less the mother, and he needs to recognize that in your relationship.
Reply:Your not being dumb it is understandable to expect something from him at least a card.
Reply:It is easy for a man to be a father but, it takes someone special to be a dad. Even though your boyfriend is not the father and by giving you a gift on mother's day is the fact that he values your compassion and has excepted the ready made family package as his own as well as showing his compassion towards you.
Reply:Presents shouldn't be expected. A gift/present is the givers choice. Although, it's OK to feel hurt. Your feelings are never dumb. Let him know that it hurts your feelings. He may not be aware.
Reply:yes you should get somthing because your a mom. Taking care of kids is a really hard thing so you should get somthing.
Reply:yeah he should still give u a mother's day gift! its like if u were 2 give ur aunt or someone like that a gift she not ur mom but its nice anyway