What do we do when my husband & I both think we're right?No 1 is willing to apologize & give in this time

My husband and I have been together only a short time (almost 4 years) and we have had this one conversation ohhhh about a hundred times about him never surprising me anymore with anything. I have been good to him with the sexy lingerie and whatnot, but have not gotten anything in return for over 2 years. Yesterday was my birthday and all I got was a card, but we are in the process of building a house so we said that was my present. And the only flowers I received on Mother's Day were the wild ones I picked from across the street. I wrote him an email today asking if he could just spend 10 min %26amp; $10 a couple times a year on his wife (because don't I atleast deserve that much?) and we totally got into a very heated fight when he got in. He thinks that he is doing enough with the house %26amp; all, but I'm not asking for much.... just something thoughtful on my birthday. Is that too much to ask for the woman that picks up his dirty underwear??? Or am I overexaggerating %26amp; being nit-picky?

What do we do when my husband %26amp; I both think we're right?No 1 is willing to apologize %26amp; give in this time
I would offer HIM a little advice, if you would relay it to him, please. He will either take care of, and love his wife, or he WILL lose her! End of discussion. You are NOT overexaggerating......he is insensitive!! He owes you an apology, by the way!

EDIT:...AND a gift, and some flowers!!!
Reply:Ok what part of this makes you sound crazy?

"we have had this one conversation ohhhh about a hundred times"

You told him. Let it go. Start appreciating what he does for you and he'll do more. Stop nagging at what he doesn't do and you'll get better results.

You got a card AND you're getting a custom built house? wow- poor you.

Let it go, okay? Just say you're sorry and tell him you love him.
Reply:HE DOING ALL THIS FOR THE MARRIAGE THROUGH THE HOUSE. BUT HE IS DOING NOTHING FOR YOU, HIS WIFE. NEXT TIME THAT HE CAN'T GET HIS HAND OUT OF HIS POCKETS WITH MONEY IN THEM, PUT HIS DIRTY UNDEE.S ON HIS PILLOW CASE, AND TELL,THAT HE REFUSED YOUR RAISE, AND THIS YOUR FORM OF PICKETING, AND UNDER YOUR BREATH, AS YOU WALK AWAY, TELL HIM TO BLOW IT OUT HIS ***, DEAR!!!
Reply:if your new house is your b-day gift what else do you want. wanting more time with him is one thing, wanting him to spend more money on you makes you sound greedy.
Reply:This one is tricky. I think that you do deserve more! Definitely, but at the same time pushing him about it is a real turn off!!! My hubby is not the extremely romantic type but he will buy me gifts for birthdays, special occasions, etc. He will once in a great while bring something just because. But he does make up for it by helping out and hugs, kisses etc.

I would suggest being more affectionate towards him and see how he reacts. Don't over do it, just a kiss when he gets home, hug and kiss in the morning etc. If he doesn't realize how important it is to you then I don't know what to tell you. It also goes both ways. Why not give him a card out of the blue? He may just follow your lead! Good luck!

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