Married women I need your advice... What do I propose to my wife now?

We are 25 yrs married and very much in love. Sex still red hot and great for us both. We've been 100% faithful and are best friends in addition to husband and wife.



Kids are FINALLY leaving the house. Finances are best ever. Everything great.



Headed to Vegas for my 50th b-day. She and I agree we want a wild time - blow off some steam - romantic dinners, flowers, jacuzzi, limo, suite are set.



We have always been the respectable couple. We began dating in high school and married after college.



We've done topless bars before, clubs, watched porn, sexy lingerie, toys... you know special occassion crazy stuff. This time, we discussed a threesome, another girl - she vetoed. I feel like a dope for suggesting it, but it's every guys fantasy.



There are limits and I will NOT push her.



SO MARRIED WOMEN -- what do you recommend -- what could I propose as wild %26amp; crazy stuff. Don't want to recommend another bad idea!



Put how long you have been married in your answer please.

Married women I need your advice... What do I propose to my wife now?
try looking into a lingerie photo shoot for her! They fix her up and make her look sexy...and you could do it with her as well! It's kinda like glamour shots in lingerie but the photographers are very professional!



Other than that, ask for her input on what she has in mind for "wild and crazy"!
Reply:why dont u get a video camera or take photos of u guys having sex with each other .... try some different positions .. try different things...





let her show u stuff shes never done before and same with u .. just let it flow





good luck
Reply:25 years together...... Congrats!!!!





Vegas alone is enough to get to mood going. I don't really know what to suggest, sounds like the two of you have pretty much done it all, with the exception of the threesome of course. I can only suggest you talk with your wife and ask her what she might suggest. It sounds like you have a great relationship so I'm sure this should be an easy discussion.
Reply:Wow, you sound like you have a very refreshing relationship. I have not been married at thirty, but boy do I hope I have the same thing. Tell her you want to make your own home made movie...that would be wild a crazy and you can continue to do that. I don't blame her for the three some but based on your personality, I don't think she was terribly upset with you. You sound like a deep understand and sincere man and you have one lucky wife.
Reply:Why not throw it to her to decide... And Vegas? Come on is that really where you want to go? Go somewhere less plastic and cheesy like Greece, Venice or any of a million better places.
Reply:At least you respected her when she wasn't for a 3some...I was married for almost 14 yr. anyway I congrats you on a long marriage, maybe some of us on here need your secret to such a long marriage...I think you got the whole thing down and you really don't need any ideas...Good Luck and have fun ....
Reply:have you ever thought of asking a woman to hit on your wife. perhaps your wife needs a woman to come on to her and see if your wife would be open to a threesome...then it'll be her idea when she suggests the three of you go back to your hotel room. if you suggested the threesome then it's YOUR idea and she thinks it's YOUR fantasy....let it be hers. after all i'm told it's very very hot to watch me with another woman. so you can't complain if all you get to do is watch....
Reply:I've only been married going on 5 years. My parents are going on 40. Why does whatever you do have to be wild and crazy? Nice dinners are always nice.
Reply:Don't get married. That's the best answer.