Ladies... what are some things that really turn you on the most?

I do a lot of sweet things for my wife like buying her flowers, cooking her dinner, making her a bubble bath, giving her a massages, etc. In the past those things would drive her wild... but as time goes by it doesn't have the same effect. Don't get me wrong I love doing those things for my wife even if I don't get anything in return. But I want to change things up a bit and spice up our relationship. I think its good to do new things every once in awhile to keep things new and fresh so you don't get into a rut. I'm open to all suggestions. Thanks!!!

Ladies... what are some things that really turn you on the most?
try something that might be a bit risky. call her from work on your lunch break or something and tell her she better be naked when you get home cause you've been thinking "great thoughts" about her all day. or maybe if she is very open and comfortable with you and herself you should ask if she'd like to "make a video" with you that you wouldn't show anyone (any digital camera will work). try getting the kids (if there are any) out of the house and make love on the floor--with the windows/curtains/blinds/shades open. come home at lunch time with a little pint of be and jerry's ice cream just for her (you can get it at wal-mart or even most bp gas stations). while she is making dinner walk up behind her and shut off the oven/stove or make her quit stirring or whatever and start taking her clothes off of her (slowly-don't be rough and keep eye contact!!) put a post card in ur own mail box or po box with a cute teddy bear on it just to tell her you love her. i don't know just be creative.......

the secret to understanding lovers is knowing that whatever they do (sexually) to you is usually what they want done to them (or something similar done to them) so whatever she does for you-reverse it
Reply:foot rub after a fancy dinner
Reply:I wish I knew how old you were, and how long you have been married, there is so much that you can do, what turns me on? Where to start... a simple kiss, when your in bed, lightly ever so lightly touch her skin, from her hands to her shoulders, to the nape of her back, down to her buttocks, over her butt cheeks, down her legs. take an ice cube, when the moment is right, let it drip on her back, legs and lick the dew off, kiss her buttocks, lick ever so softly, sex can be more than sex, Intimacy is more than sex, what I like, is when my man and I play games, we hide from eachother, when we find eachother, it's such a turn on, that soon we'll be together in that special way... a note stating a simple sexy or non sexy thought that you had of her today... use your wild imagination, and you'll be surprised at what you come up with, life is too short to be let everything become dull. I'm 44, nerver married, and I have a Great Sexual Life, I'm dating a younger man, who is 27... it's more about Intimacy, than just sex and f_ _ king....... you can be intimate without sex, have fun and Love your wife and she'll be pleasantly surprised and she will always love you..... never let it get boring.... have fun!
Reply:Take a weekend vacation together. Go camping or to a b%26amp;b or to someplace that is special to you guys. Just spend time together. Talk and relax and have fun. Put aside the cares of life for a couple of days and devote yourselves to each other. Have fun!
Reply:go up to her unexpectedly grab her by the hips and kiss her neck...thats the best or just tell her how much she means to you...play with her hair...look into her eyes and soflty smile...sweet soft kisses
Reply:Send her some provocative emails. Tell her what you will do to her. Keep her intrigued. Role playing works wonders too. Engage her mind as well as her body.
Reply:GOD you're so sweet!! That would be all I needed right there. Your wife is kinda weird. :\
Reply:How about first cutting back on the things you do give her, like the flowers and drawing her bubble baths. Take a breather and then surprise her with something different. Or just put a little twist on what you're giving her. Instead of giving her a massage, how about an erotic massage? Instead of a boquet of flowers, why not one unique flower? Try sex outside of the bedroom to change things up. I personally love when my boyfriend brings me coffee from Starbuck's or massages my back without me having to ask (I have a sliped disc with lots of lower back pain). A couple days ago he surprised me in the shower and we had a very good time. ;) These surprises don't have to be big or expensive.
Reply:Wow, it sounds like you are a great husband. How about sentimental things that may remind her of your early days: the perfume she used to wear, the movie you went to see on your first date, visiting a favorite landmark? You could also do a favorite activity together like picking up a co-ed sport or simply incorporating an evening walk into your daily routine. My husband gave me unsolicited dance lessons. I thought it might be a little cheesy, but we had a blast and grew even closer. Also, not everything needs to be a surprise, ask her what she wants. It will give her something to look forward to.
Reply:Herd you need to treat your woman like a princess in bed

give lots of TLC and erotic massage as well women love it when you taste her sweetness and really use alot of tongue down there it will do the trick guarateed she is going to ask for more
Reply:Those things you do are very sweet.... but - far too common and played out. What you've got to do is try new things. Instead of buying her flowers, buy her something that she's talked about in the past that will surprise her that you remembered. And for massages, try getting a nice scented massage oil to spice it up a bit and maybe one day when you've got the money, surprise her by taking her to a nice hotel one night and pamper her there just to try something new. But as for what would turn ME on the most is definitely, hands down, having my guy request a mushy song on the radio and dedicating it to me.

Best of luck!

:Corbyn
Reply:hhmm are you trying to make us all jealous that your so sweet or are you for real..



:(I wish I got flowers
Reply:My fiance does this for me so try it for your wife.



Start by having a candle light dinner with wine and prepare her a tub bath with bubbles. Take the pleasure of joining her. (Girls loved to be wrapped in her mans arms and also...this makes her feel sexual). Next head for the bed and well....take your mind from there... : ) Hope that works!